Abortion: Do I have to do it
Support and question regarding Abortion: Do I have to do it? An insight to the problem faced by our society and a solution to avoid abortion. The choice promises a better destiny.
Q: The increase in abortion rate, why?
Boy friend pressure; forces you to abort the child, you agreed to do abortion for his love, after the abortion he vanished into thin air, running away from you and getting a new girl friend, the story line is always the same, why? Experience and related cases seems vital enough to educate and inform us about the possible consequences of love before marriage.
Check your boy friend profile before getting involved in any relationship with him; get this info before it is too late. It can safe your destiny.
Parents; when your mum gets to know about your pregnancy she pestered you to undergo an abortion. Do you know why? Humiliation and disgraced for what you have done. You have disfigured your parents face with your crazy love affairs. But sir, I love my boy friend. My dear sis; do you know that your boyfriend is taking advantage of you. You need to abort the child due to humiliation and stress. You are irresponsible for your action. Whereas the child; has to face the consequences of your action. The child is crystal clear from any sins. But you did it. Did you ever empathies the unborn child and his rights to be born and live. If you are that unfortunate baby; being discarded and killed by his mum, thrown into the rubbish bin. What is your comment? ….why did my mum killed me? I just want my mum to be happy…but.. I can’t live.. please give me a chance!
Did you feel guilty? How could you kill your own child?
Doctors; How about the doctors? who are suppose to be highly educated. Of course they are making money out of your foolishness. Belief me sis; nearly 4000 babies are discarded every day. Decompose and murdered by his mum.
Fear of humiliation; you wanted to cover the bulging stomach from your friends because you are still studying in college. If the boys know about this, you feel like a cheap girl with no sense of dignity. People will be looking at you in humiliation. You need to escape from this humiliation, by just killing the baby. And clearing yourself from the horrified situation. That is an easy way out. Nobody knows what you do, just make an appointment with the doctors, they smile at you. And say ok. The child was murdered. Return home, as if nothing happen. No law enforcement, no rules and regulation. You are safe. That is the decision you made. And later repeat the same mistake over and over again. You are just crazy. Haven’t you heard the phrase: Once beaten twice shy?
Did you have any feelings?
Didn’t you feel sad, depress for taking your child’s life in your hands? How could you kill him just because of dignity, or the term humiliation? You have done the sins, you need to face the consequences and accept such humiliation for whatever wrong you do.
How about the boys? They ran away from you and get another stupid and crazy girl. Isn’t it easy? There are more girls unaware of the situation. No rules just have sex…get more girls …pay some money… enjoy. Got pregnant..just abort.
Q: Will the boyfriend marry you?
Maybe and maybe not. He wants to get a more decent and intelligent girl for his married life. Why should he choose you? There are clean girls for his marriage. There are more adventures to roam and test the market (fish)
Some girls did have sex with her boyfriend assuming the he will marry her. Anyway, is there any agreement endorsed to confirm the relationship?
Do you have any marriage certification, endorsed and witness by your parents?
Are you ready to have a married life? With kids pestering you, you need to toil all day long to do the house work. Are you really ready to be a wife? If your answer to these questions is negative, you are going to make a tremendous wrong decision in life. Marriage and love affairs are not a play ground or to test due to curiosity; Do you know a phrase: “Curiosity kills the cat.” do I really need abortion: Do I have to do it
“My friend married at the age of 17, he married a girl about his age, the love and sex affair started before marriage. Do you know what happen to him? He hasn’t finished his high school. Now he works as a store keeper in a factory working office hours, and work night shift at the harbour. I was working night shift and noticed he sleeps during working hours at night, and the rest of the guys are working. Why, what actually happen to this guy? His income is not enough to cover family expense. So he needs to struggle. Do you really want this type of hectic life?”
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged?
You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!
Please listen to my advice:
“If you are still in college, focus in your studies and get value with your certificates, your future depends on your attainment and success. Most jobs need a qualified person with relevant certificates. I think many people know this.
The time for marriage will come, if you are ready. Never start a serious relationship; you will end up feeling guilty for your mistakes. What was done, could not be altered“
- Why? What causes the alarming abortion rate?
Pornography is wide spread, with easy access via the internet, and sometimes it is free. The prostitutes, film makers, the viewers; they are just having fun.
More ladies are being trick out to have adultery and ending up with pregnancy.
Love affairs and easy chatting portal monetize the situation to trap itchy guys.
- Curiosity and fantasy; Do you know that abortion is like giving birth? The baby is scrap form the walls of the womb, or sometimes the doctor use a vacuum to pull out the baby and cut it into pieces, thrown into the junkyard.
- Doctors monetize the situation and earn big bucks from your actions.
- The lack of support homes for women to seek refuge. Any cases of abortion should be reported and the woman referred to an officer or mentor, for consultation or support.
Problems taken from forums regarding abortion
Q: He wants me to abort the child. Is it the best solution to my pregnancy?
Dear beloved sis; Abortion means killing the baby. However you can transfer that responsibility or burden to adoption homes, there are people who want to adopt kids. You can visit and even talk to the child, at least you save the child’s life from abortion.
Q: Will there be a better relationship with the child?
The child has an internal unsolved question; who are my parents? Why I am discarded without love?
Can you answer that question?
No, you have painted an abstract art in his heart, it is difficult to erase off. A scar will always be in him.
Q: Does adultery before marriage, promise a good life in marriage?
No sis, Why?
Simple, you don’t know his profile, he may be a drug addict, and you will be oppress to support his addicted needs, or he doesn’t bring his pay check, unemployed. You scolded and put the blame upon him. But you are the one who choose him. That’s a wrong choice, isn’t it? No, it is wrong a decision. Always get a second opinion. don’t dive in to having sex.
Q: What’s the solution to Abortion: Do I have to do it
Rule number 1:
You need to know his profile before marriage, investigate his educational background, job, and of course his bank. “With our Instant Background Check you can inquire into an individual’s past discreetly and efficiently”
Rule number 2:
Dating sites that promise marriage, get people who are interested in marriage but not for dates. You will get more interested person who is serious to build family relationship rather than person who just want to fish for the best ladies.
Q: does beauty a concern?
Rule Number 3:
Build your network or friends who can support your search for that guy. Inform your parents your decision, but the real guy is the guy you know in college or at work. The person; who offer you a hand in marriage.
Rule number 4:
Expand your knowledge regarding marriage life. The more knowledge you have, adds to more skills and experience. Surf the net for more info. books such as how to save your marriage.
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